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June is Pride Month

Each year, the month of June is dedicated to celebrating and honoring LGBTQI+ communities and individuals. Pride Month recognizes the impact that gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, and individuals of other gender and sexual identities have had on the world. It also honors members of the community who have been lost, especially to hate crimes or HIV/AIDS. 

STESA would also like to take this opportunity to provide education on the issue of sexual assault. LGBTQI+ individuals are at increased risk of sexual assault, particularly due to harmful stereotypes and myths about LGBTQI+ experiences. Many sexual assaults perpetrated against these individuals are hate crimes, committed with the intent to punish the target for their perceived nonconformity to traditional gender and sexual norms. In a study of 273 participants identifying as gay or lesbian, 52% of the participants reported at least one incident of sexual assault/coercion. 

Perpetrators of sexual assault are often someone the survivor knows. According to the CDC’s National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey, 44% of lesbians and 61% of bisexual women experience rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner. Similarly, 26% of gay men and 37% of bisexual men experience rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner. 

LGBTQI+ individuals also face unique challenges to healing from sexual assault due to barriers to access to resources, especially medical and legal resources. For example, LGBTQI+ survivors may be reluctant to disclose their assault out of fear that non-LGBTQI+ communities will reinforce the myth that LGBTQI+ relationships are dysfunctional. Additionally, the survivor may not be “out” and fear that coming forward will reveal the survivor’s sexual orientation and/or gender identity, resulting in negative repercussions from non-LGBTQI+ communities.

Standing Together to End Sexual Assault (STESA) provides confidential counseling and support services to survivors of sexual assault and their loved ones. Through education and awareness, STESA is committed to change the cultural norms that enable sexual assault to exist. Our service area extends from Carpinteria to the Santa Ynez Valley.

STESA Hosts 12th Annual Chocolate de Vine Fundraiser Virtually Featuring Founder of ‘me too’, Tarana Burke

Each year, Standing Together to End Sexual Assault (STESA) hosts a fundraiser celebrating two luxurious consumables: chocolate and wine. This year’s Chocolate de Vine fundraiser will take place over live-stream on May 14, 2021 from 5:30-6:30 p.m. Donations and sponsorships from this event contribute to STESA’s work to provide services to survivors of sexual assault and their loved ones, and prevent sexual assault from occurring in the community. This year’s celebration of wine and chocolate features an exciting opportunity drawing, tiered ticketing and sponsorship options, and a Fireside Chat and Q&A with activist and founder of the ‘me too’ movement, Tarana Burke. 

Tarana Burke has created, led and participated in various campaigns focused on interrupting sexual violence and other systemic inequalities disproportionately impacting marginalized people, particularly Black women and girls, as well as increasing access to resources and support for impacted communities. Guests have an opportunity to submit questions for Tarana on the ticket purchase form.

This year’s opportunity drawing prize is a portrait couture makeover experience with local, award-winning photographer, Lucia Kiel. The winner of the drawing and a guest of their choosing will enjoy professional hair & makeup artistry, style & concept consultation, and a fully guided magazine style photoshoot, plus a $1,000 image credit, bringing the total prize value to $1,800.

Tickets for Chocolate de Vine can be purchased on the event website, linked here. The “M&Ms” level, which includes an access link to the event, is $25. The “White Chocolate” level, which includes an access link to the event and premium chocolate, is $100. Additional sponsorship levels, which include different amounts of premium chocolate, wine, and commemorative glasses, range from $250-$5000.

Standing Together to End Sexual Assault (STESA) provides a 24-hour bilingual hotline (805-564-3696), confidential counseling and support services to survivors of sexual assault and their loved ones. Through education and awareness, STESA is committed to change the cultural norms that enable sexual assault to exist. Our service area extends from Carpinteria to the Santa Ynez Valley.

Standing Together to End Sexual Assault

April is national Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM), an annual campaign aimed at raising public consciousness to consider sexual assault as a public health, human rights, and social justice issue as well as educating people about how to prevent it. 

For the nonprofit Standing Together to End Sexual Assault (STESA) based here in Santa Barbara, though, every month, every day, and every hour is devoted to the same goals: providing confidential counseling and support services to survivors of sexual assault while striving to eliminate all forms of sexual violence in our community. 

The organization that was founded back in the 1970s as the Rape Crisis Center and adopted its new name just a little over two years ago still has the core service of being there for rape and sexual assault victims as soon as a call comes into its hotline, with a staff member or volunteer showing up – if only virtually during the pandemic – to offer advice about medical care, legal options, and provide counseling services if desired. The goal is to empower survivors to take back control of their lives and their bodies. 

But the new name, chosen to more accurately represent the scope of services offered by the organization, alludes to the broader goal of actually ending sexual assault at its roots, indeed changing the cultural norms that enable sexual assault to proliferate. That’s where education and the goals of this year’s SAAM events come in. 

“Sexual assault is an umbrella term and there’s many different examples that fall underneath it,” explained Bianca Orozco, STESA’s community education coordinator.  “Any sexual harassment that happens online is an example of sexual assault. Someone commenting in an inappropriate way on a picture that makes that person uncomfortable, anything like that – they’re different examples of sexual assault and can be equally violating and traumatic to (the victim). It might be common online, but it’s still assault if there isn’t consent. Just because we’re not in-person doesn’t mean that sexual assault has stopped, it does adapt and it does occur in those spaces, too.”

Considering online harassment as a lesser form of sexual assault, perhaps further down on a continuum, isn’t a smart approach, Orozco said. 

“It’s like diminishing cat calling as no big deal, telling the woman to just walk a different way or cover up,” she said. “It creates a level of accessibility that not only diminishes the experience of the victim, but eventually leads to excusing or minimizing all forms of sexual assault.”

That take is in line with STESA executive director Elsa Granados’ approach: “They’re all violating and they’re all about power and control,” she said. “People who experience online harassment can be just as traumatized as survivors of in-person and suffer depression and anxiety, especially while we’re all isolated. So we have to set some boundaries around what is acceptable to speak to someone else.”

Create to Prevent

Raising the level of online awareness during the pandemic is what STESA’s focus for the 20th anniversary of SAAM is all about. A virtual campaign called Create to Prevent, launching across several social media platforms including Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter, invites local youths to become change agents by tapping into their creative expression to express ideas about cyber sexual harassment. This includes any unwanted behaviors over social media, dating apps, email, Zoom calls, and video chat, whether verbal or through a visual action. 

Accordingly, youths are being encouraged to create multimedia content – art, poetry, skits, infographics – that STESA will collate and choose winners who will see their creations shared on social media and possibly earn a pair of Beats headphones and other prizes. 

“What we’re doing for SAAM this year is asking youth in our community to pick the information that we have been using to educate them, and pass it along by creating something original,” Orozco said. “It could be a painting or a drawing. Maybe poetry, or a TikTok video. Whatever they feel comfortable submitting that focuses on the topic of sexual assault, and counteracting messages they might be seeing on TV or elsewhere that perpetuates it. We want the information to be shared creatively so it reaches people.”

STESA provides education in hopes of preventing and eliminating sexual assault

The outreach efforts are extensions of STESA’s regular education programs that address all aspects of sexual harassment and assault for area youths, STESA youth educator Holly Scala said. The topics have grown out of conversations about the meaning of consent or how so-called “rape culture” gets perpetuated. 

“They experience it mostly online because that’s where they spend a lot of time, especially this last year,” Scala said. “So we’re bringing it closer to home and cultivating a more nuanced understanding of what sexual assault is. And we also focus on cyber sexual harassment because we know that it’s more common in that it can be anonymous, and maybe it seems benign, but it only opens the floodgates to perpetrating future violence. So by educating them it helps to prevent that slippery slope.”

To that end, STESA’s digital SAAM program for 2021 will focus on a different aspect on cyber abuse, through nonconsensual sending of nude images to sexually coercing people online. And the month will also include education on how people can directly intervene to combat online sexual harassment, Scala said. “You can become an upstander instead of a passive bystander.”

April’s awareness activities also include STESA’s first Virtual Book Club on April 9 where participants will be reading Beartown by Fredrik Backman, a novel that explores the consequences and small-town reactions after the town’s star junior hockey player rapes a 15-year-old girl that was also recently adapted into an HBO series. Other activities include Yelp SB County hosting a free comedy show on April 22 with voluntary Venmo tips going to STESA, and a Denim Day that takes place both over social media and in-person at STESA’s socially-distanced self-defense class on April 28. 

The April activities are just a small piece of STESA’s stated goal of making Santa Barbara a community free of all forms of sexual violence. 

“To eliminate it, we need to prevent it and to prevent it we need to educate and to educate, we need to start early,” Scala said. “We would rather give young people the information now so they don’t turn into perpetrators and that’s how you prevent sexual assault for generations to come.” 

That’s a mission that works for April or anytime at all. 

For more information about STESA, visit sbstesa.org.

April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month

This April commemorates the 20th anniversary of Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM) through several activities. Standing Together to End Sexual Assault (STESA) is launching the virtual campaign, Create to Prevent on social media platforms, including Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter. Create to Prevent invites youth to become agents of social change by expressing themselves creatively about sexual assault, specifically cyber sexual harassment. 

Cyber sexual harassment is any unwanted sexual behaviors or attention through text, social media, email, dating apps, and video chat. This includes verbal or visual actions that are sexual in nature. Cyber sexual harassment most commonly affects younger populations, especially LGBTQ+ youth, who are four times more likely to experience cyber sexual harassment. Survivors of cyber sexual harassment endure similar trauma as survivors of in-person harassment. Depression, anxiety, isolation, and suicide are some of the most common expressions of this trauma. 

To address these issues, STESA is sponsoring a contest to uplift youth voices on the topic of sexual assault in our community. Youth are encouraged to create multimedia content, such as art, poetry, skits, or infographics. STESA will choose winners in different media categories who will have the opportunity to have their submissions shared on social media. Contest prizes include a pair of Beats headphones, gift cards, and STESA swag. 

STESA is hosting a self-defense workshop in Isla Vista on Denim Day, April 28th. Participants are encouraged to wear denim to make a statement against victim blaming. Registration for this event is open to all community members ages 13+, and interested parties should email bianca@sbstesa.org to register. 

STESA’s Community Education Coordinator, Bianca Orozco, emphasizes, “Even in the midst of the pandemic, sexual assault continues to happen. We’re trying to equip people with the tools to recognize and combat sexual assault from home.”

Standing Together to End Sexual Assault (STESA) provides confidential counseling and support services to survivors of sexual assault and their loved ones. Through education and awareness, STESA is committed to change the cultural norms that enable sexual assault to exist. Our service area extends from Carpinteria to the Santa Ynez Valley.

Visit sbstesa.org for more information about STESA. 

March is Women’s History Month

In 1987, the United States Congress declared the month of March “National Women’s History Month.” This month-long celebration of women and their achievements grew out of a smaller, week-long celebration initiated in 1978 by the Education Task Force of the Sonoma County Commission on the Status of Women. The success of this early celebration reverberated throughout the country and, following various Presidential decrees, evolved into National Women’s History Month.

STESA’s vision for a community free of sexual violence depends closely on freedom, equity, and justice for all genders. Sexual assault is a direct result of systemic injustice, including injustices against women. Therefore, Women’s History Month serves as a time to reflect, celebrate, organize, and continue to raise awareness about issues affecting women.

This year, STESA is celebrating Women’s History Month virtually on our social media, Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter. STESA will be highlighting various components of women’s history with an emphasis on intersectional feminism. Our social media pages will include information on the history of rape crisis centers throughout the country, STESA’s own history, women’s suffrage, the Equal Rights Amendment, and hidden figures in women’s history. We invite you to follow us on social media to learn and engage with us about these important and interesting topics.

Standing Together to End Sexual Assault (STESA) provides confidential counseling and support services to survivors of sexual assault and their loved ones. Through education and awareness, STESA is committed to change the cultural norms that enable sexual assault to exist. Our service area extends from Carpinteria to the Santa Ynez Valley.

For more information about STESA, visit www.sbstesa.org or call (805) 963-6832.

A Two-Front Battle Against Sexual Assault

How do you end sexual assault across an entire community? 

The answer, according to the leaders of Standing Together to End Sexual Assault (STESA), is rooted at both the individual and community level. The 46-year-old agency, formerly known as the Santa Barbara Rape Crisis Center, set up the first-ever sexual assault hotline in Santa Barbara in 1974. 

Over the years, the services have grown. Now STESA intervenes with survivors within hours of an assault, counsels those who may have delayed sharing their stories and is engaged in a full-on effort against the cultural norms that have allowed sexual violence to proliferate for so long. 

Executive Director Elsa Granados has been in the movement to end sexual violence since 1985. In 1997, she assumed her role at STESA. What keeps her engaged? 

“Overall what I see is that we really transform people’s lives,” Granados says. “They come to us in a place where they are very vulnerable, feeling pain and trauma. It’s not that transformation comes overnight. But when they make the decision to leave our services, they are in a different place.” 

Amazingly, STESA’s skeleton full-time staff of four hotline responders/case managers and a clutch of dedicated volunteers comprehensively meet the needs of 550 survivors and their significant others all using an empowerment model. Once a call comes into the hotline, STESA staff or volunteers are there within 30 minutes. This could be at a school, hospital or police station. They then walk survivors through their options: medical care, legal reporting, and mental health counseling. “We always ask survivors if they want to work with us,” says STESA Program Director Idalia Gomez. “One decision about their bodies was already taken from them, so we make sure they know they are in charge of their healing.”

Beyond direct services, STESA is actively engaged in educating the community about the prevalence and precursors to sexual assault. They go into Santa Barbara schools, debunking myths about sexual assualt, hold community events – and even teach self-defense.

“We need everyone in our community to be engaged in the issue,” Executive Director Granados says. “Not everyone has to do everything, but everyone has to do something when it comes to sexual assault.”